AGE. Could you guide us through the process of a sensual massage? How does it typically begin and end, and what are the benefits for those who experience it?
BG. Ideally, you should experience it for yourself, but my website provides enough information to give you a clear idea of how the experience flows. There's also a link to my Instagram content, which offers further insight. Feel free to check it out at www.bartgeldenhuys.com.
AGE. Has this work influenced how you connect with people or how you see yourself?
BG. I've always been able to connect with people on a deep and intimate level, even without sensual massage. But I guess the offering creates a safe and vulnerable space where people feel comfortable opening up about their issues, insecurities, and more. It has a positive influence on how I connect with others. I see myself as an incredibly authentic person, providing a unique and beautiful experience for those I work with.
Now that we’ve explored the more intimate side of your work as a massage therapist, let’s dive into some more personal questions—getting to know the man behind the confidence and charisma. We’re about to get a little more daring, so let’s have some fun with this!
AGE. When it comes to intimacy, what’s your biggest turn-on?
BG. This might seem boring to some, but open and honest communication is probably my biggest turn-on. Realness and authenticity are incredibly attractive to me.
AGE. What do you think is the sexiest thing about you, and do others see it the way you do?
BG. The genuineness of my being. I'm not sure how others perceive it.
AGE. Do you prefer taking the lead, or are you more into being surprised? Or is it all about the right chemistry for you?
BG. I believe there’s a time and place to be dominant and to be submissive. But yes, chemistry is vital, and who doesn’t love a good surprise?
AGE. In your experience, what’s more important—physical attraction or emotional connection? Or is it the perfect mix of both?
BG. Naturally, we all tend to find physical attraction important at first, but that doesn’t last if the person can’t connect with you on a real and emotional level. So, I would say a good balance of both is key.
AGE. What’s your idea of a perfect escape—just you, a partner, and no distractions?
BG. Any form of getaway in nature with my partner, good food, and, well, I’m sure you can guess the rest...